Man vs. Child, by Doug Moe

I don't know Doug Moe, but I think I'd like hanging out with him.  Besides being an actor, comedian, and writer, he's a dad, and has compiled some wisdom and tips for new dads in Man vs. Child: One Dad's Guide to the Weirdness of Parenting.  This is by no means a comprehensive how-to guide.  I mean, is there ever such a book?  Kids are complicated and are all so different, who can really write down all you need to know?  No, this book is just fun and funny.  (But there are some practical bits, for sure.)

Moe loosely organizes the book by subject and stage of development, sharing some of what he has learned during his years of being a dad.  One broad principle came through loud and clear: go ahead and accept the fact that being a dad means you must be willing not be cool, maybe even totally uncool, and that you just shouldn't worry about maintaining your dignity.  The good news is, what you do as a dad is much more important and rewarding that being cool or dignified.

Moe takes the reader from considering having a baby up to being dad to a big kid.  He offers some pretty good practical advice.  For instance, he points out that you will probably be expected to buy a changing table to match the crib.  But wait: remember that the floor is simply a very large changing table, and one off of which a baby won't roll!  I know I did some diaper changing on a changing table, but I have changed a lot more diapers right on the floor.  Maybe we could have done without the changing table. . . .

Man vs. Child reads like a book sometimes, and like a stand-up routine sometimes.  That makes sense, given the author.  It's funny and any dad is sure to share a laugh with Moe.  And who knows, the new dad who reads it might even learn a little about being a dad.


Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the complimentary electronic review copy!